Child planning. That's an incredibly scary phrase isn't it. CHILD PLANNING. I remember when I turned 21 and started to think that people my age where getting married and having children and I had an anxiety attack. Now that Tim and I are engaged (it almost happened a couple of times, did you know that?) we are starting to talk more in-depth about family planning. Children right after we get married is neither one of our goals so we have been talking over the options. Tim said he would feel comfortable using just condoms even if they do break and so forth. I almost fainted. I told him if the condom broke I would be running naked to the pharmacist.

Scary shit. Babies are terrifying.

I'm going on the pill after I get married because I'm vain and don't want to gain any weight before the big day so if I get pregnant before it's effective I'm going to kill.